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People treat you badly, you are unworthy of commitment perhaps or even the slightest things such as receiving a smile from a stranger you've been passing by every day with. You are selfish sometimes, because you tend to be more sophisticated with yourself more than you are with other people.
It's time you accept that you understand that it's important to be respecting yourself, but not to an extent of unwilling to forgive the mistakes of your loved ones.
Ignorance.
I've been putting strands and risks in my life for being too justified with my stands. Sometimes I feel like I underestimate people just because their treatment towards me is not as much as I've invested in them. Everyone has their struggles to love themselves and to be real, when you reach that point of self-love, you reach to another trait of danger. During your years of unable to be happy, there are advantages people gain such as misusing your kindness for their personal interest etc. However, when you are stable with the positivity you've build to be open with social engagements, relationships and friends, the existence of extreme cautious arrives.
To be honest I still find it a hard time to differentiate whether my ideology of acceptance should be treated with fair justification or simply, just forgive.
You realise you love yourself and there is simply no room for negativity nor useless people in your life but you have a struggle with maintaining it because one thing for sure -you will never get away with that when you constantly are intact with another human being.
How long can you live to be defensive of another? How long can you bear with the thought of shutting people from your life because they made a mistake? How much more can you be egoistic towards someone who has constantly apologised for their wrongdoings?
You shift from one point to another. Yes, I feel like I am improving in terms of understanding that not anyone can simply take you for granted. But understand, that we all have made several mistakes to one another. I highlight this post to remind myself that I am not perfect to be unforgiving nor do I have the authority to condemn anyone in my life. I realised that sometimes I always tell my partner of how people have treated me unfairly either due to lack of responsibility, jealously or hatred. It was never merely about the sadness simply, but more towards the power of fair treatment.
Once in a while, just forgive.
It's time to put that arrogance down and reflect the mistakes we've made to people rather than pointing out the ones who did to us simply. The wonderful feeling in life is when forgiveness is taken into account and the beauty of it is given into the hands of people like us who are undoubtedly filled with sins and mistakes ourselves.
Love others regardless and send no hatred to anyone :)
