Happiness is when you take this glimpse of affirmation
realizing that whatever you’ve gone through life as well as the future, it’s a
complete set to attain the longest possible way of faith.
The way you control your life is a complete set of test. No
one was born to be tortured mentally and physically. If they do, and are going
through it, believe me, they’ve settled themselves in the highest standard of
mankind. Being strong.
You can never avoid people bashing your family –hoping you’d
have it all badly ending in the end. But to this belief –belief that the
positive side of whatever that holds the reason to their acts is due to one
thing.
Jealousy.
Jealousy, jealously, jealously. What can be more
entertaining to them seeing those they hate suffer from theirs? As long as you
live –till death sets you away or better yet, even till your death, it won’t be
anything near to making them happy.
It’s a complete mind-blown discouragement to actually know
people whom are jealous with your family can possibly do just about anything to
break happiness apart. What is the good you’d achieve?
We have differ sets of life. We have differ problems in
reality and no, not everyone is lucky to be a part of a family, loving each
other, supporting each other till the very end, to be there when pain from your
cause almost kills them right in the stomach.
There is a reason why Allah has fated anything to happen
within the family, but being due to jealousy, it’s unexplainable to actually
understand how pain bears the happiness those who intend to want.
Possibilities in life is various to an extent that no one in
this world is in need for any more corruption within the group. Put your belief
in Allah. Put your jealousy aside by thinking greatly about yourself instead of
stalking about other’s life just to be mad and try to condemn us with so much
things –even it means using black magic.
Applying in real life, us as normal people ourselves, why be
jealous? What causes you to be jealous of others to an extent bringing them
down even when you’re dead?
Firstly, stop seeing
negativity in your life.
Admire yourself, all the time. If you don’t have anything to
be proud of yourself, then try to create something that defines you differently
with other people around you. You don’t have any talents of your own? You don’t
feel any special? You don’t have a happy family compared to us?
Then do something about it. Don’t be small minded thinking
you’re not worth being happy. To gain happiness do the thing that makes
yourself happy as well as not affecting others. Do it for Allah.
Then
everything will be fine.
Spend time with yourself, enjoy the time you have in the
room doing some fun stuff instead of hanging on the phone peeking out to know
how your friends have been going –specifically, comparing your so-called dull
life with their special fairy tale enchantment.
If you think you aren’t good-looking, spend a day in front
of the mirror. Look at every detail of your face. For those wearing glasses,
contacts, make-up, take it all off. Make your face clean and just stare at your
face. Admire every single detail you have (I have to admit I can’t see my face
without specs in front of the mirror. Laugh out loud). Smile, look at that
beautiful face and see the flaws you have smiling. Everyone isn’t born to be
good-looking in everyone’s eyes, but let me tell you something.
Nothing is more special than having a good heart.
I’ll be happy to make an entry on why should you not be
hopefully thinking to be loved for your looks in the future –bearing with
jealously of looks in specific. But in this case, I’m talking about the hatred
of others for their own life. Besides looks, but for what they’ve achieved in a
whole.
Being jealous is good if you convert every single piece of
it in the heart to your acts of making self-improvements. It’s okay to be
jealous when you see someone is much more religious, clever or kind than you.
But remind the soul, mind and heart that jealousy is attained from your aims in
life.
There are people who is jealous because someone looks
prettier than them –they want those kind of attention from people based on
physically themselves. There are people who is jealous on those who are clever
–they want to be the one taking the scroll for being first honor in degree
during graduation day. There are people who is jealous on those who manage to
be truthful with their deeds and acts that no one is able to see the negative
side of them –they want to be the best version of themselves but sees others
significantly better than them on self-improvements.
Jealous will only be given
treatments through seeing the good side of life and seeing the possibility of
enjoying it till the very end. You don’t need to keep yourself busy looking at
others, comparing with yourselves, telling them how lucky they are and leave
yourself in the room, thinking ‘Oh God, why can’t I be in their position?’
Depression is the first effect of
jealously. Stalking /comparing becomes an addiction. Mind becomes solid to one
precise goal when thinking there is simply no way being them.
“I hate you and I’ll do anything
to make you feel bad about how I feel”
I understand the unbearable
feeling of being so down you just simply don’t see the chance of being the
person you thought you’d live your life happily for.
You know the thing they prescribe
that nothing can withstand your fears of being ‘imperfect’ to the eyes of
majority so you’re this villain that does this job to bring people down.
Bringing it down is as simple as regaining back your inner spirits.
Your inner spirits of loving
yourself.
When it comes to loving yourself,
no one even the greatest motivator could do something that changes your
perception about yourself if you don’t let that ignition to happen. But now I’m
talking about you bringing people down.
Why watch people be in their
miserable stage when you’re the one bearing the pain through your own acts?
Change the lives you see who are
leading to a better one than yours.
How? Using black magic.
The most corrupted jealously of
all time is using black magic.
Masya-Allah how on earth can a
human who is so complex in emotional intelligence as well as the clear
perspective of life and have the sudden urge to hurt people with the mysterious
things –in hope, they are haunted for life knowing these unseen creations of
God are killing their minds slowly with fear and lack of bravery to confront to
a better stage.
Similar to driving, no matter how
good you are at driving, you accept that there’s a possibility your car is
going to be hit by a trailer whom you didn’t expect to merge with you on the
same road. Or that feeling when you’re on the right lane but the car who is
overtaking from the lane opposite of yours in heading right in your way
–there’s no way you can do about it but to hope that car would be fast enough
on reconsidering their safety as well as yours –unless they planned to die.
On this case, the more you try to
improvise the heart, the more you start to love yourself, the more successful
you are and the more you start to really feel the term of ‘happiness’ itself,
let me tell you one thing.
People will try to hate whatever
happiness you try to gain (I really advice the term of happiness in the context
of relevancy and non-effective negativity to others) will do just about
anything let you be as miserable as you can.
For haters, as long as you do
good and you are very positive that what you do isn’t causing harm to others be
it mentally and physically, I have a good formula.
Close your ears and
dance the way out the door in front of them with a smile. Eheh.
There are ways on building the
kind of faith on being strong to deal with jealousy of others who made them obvious
enough to you. Bear in mind, however everything you do in order to preserve the
sense of deliberately thinking to the perception of wanting to be perfectly
calm about this is through the mind set itself.
When black magic is cursed upon
us, there is slightly the unbearable burden we have to encounter be it you
yourself or family relatives.
Today, there is no such thing as
no attempt of black magic to tear a family or person in specific apart. There
are so many cases inside Malaysia itself based on their religious aspects. But reality
is, it is passed on for generations due to the previous people during their
years to ensure safety and beauty constant.
People as a representative of
this problem due to jealousy is hard. Hard to be accepted being in a condition
as this when everyone is fine. It’s not due to your acts of worshipping satans
or etc, but due to a jealous –jealous person who can’t stand watching your
family rise high and do good deeds at the same time. To be roughly categorized
as lucky, in short.
Being brave in this case requires
such high quality of mentality on keeping patient. That is the essential
requirement to everything that includes the case of black magic.
Now, people are so keen of being
jealous of others they do just about anything that dies up the people they
intend for.
Isn’t this sad? If you haven’t
done anything wrong but due to other’s jealousy you are in a situation that just
breaks your heart apart. Why?
Jealousy. Jealousy. Jealousy.
Are you happy keeping people
down?
I bet you are.
