Hey there!
Let’s be honest that there are some things guys do that is
considered attractive. To me, it’s a regular aspect differ genders would feel
when this vibe comes. I’ve checked out websites on what makes a guy attractive
but really, not many resembles the ‘magnet’ factor.
But hey, differ people, differ perceptions right? So I’ve
listed down top 10 most interesting acts guys do including brief reasons and
compliments on the very specific factor.
1. . Close Interaction with his Mother
How can you not think of saying guys who often talk about
his mother or at least always mentions his mother in conversations isn’t
attractive? Or see a teenage stranger talk cheerfully with his mother at a
restaurant? It’s an obvious sign that indicates her involvement in his bachelor
life is incredibly meaningful. Even girls don’t often talk about their parents
to friends unless if asked who we acknowledge or love the most.
2.
Faithful to God
Regardless of religion (but for me Islam of course), any guy
who worships to God constantly is a bonus point, not only to be blessed from
God, but also an attraction to girls. Especially if they often go to the mosque
or like in my old school, performs hajat prayers after prep. Remember, not all
guys are good even when they make it obvious of their deeds. But it’s better
than those who make it obvious of their bad behaviour but never tried to make
improvements. Similar to girls.
3.
Balances his Behaviour
Guys. There will be hysterical laughs or over acting jokes within
their gang. It’s one of the times girls tend to reconsider approaching them.
Honestly, they act like they’re drunk. Though it’s a little harsh, we
understand that’s a normal trait for guys my age so it’s fine. But if you have
to talk to them under real purposes when the guy is in that specific state and
all the sudden he changes from ‘I’m so crazyy’ to ‘oh hey there, yes can I help
you?’, that is attractive. Leaves you with an opened jaw on realizing how he
can be crazy among his gang and yet turn to be so polite to you.
4.
Smiles to Strangers
Some guys think it’s hot for them to act all hipster-like
and etc when going out. If so, you don’t need smiles. That spoils the standard
of their ‘handsomeness’. As if. I thought so at first, until one night when I
was buying burger, this guy steadily smiles and offers great thanks to the cashier
before pacing out smiling again to us who are lining behind him. It’s not
flirtatious. It’s sincere and that, is also really attractive. If girls did the
smiling, trust me, no matter how sincere we are, it’s considered flirting.
Appreciate this bonus guys. Seriously.
5.
Works Hard Regardless of Shame
Not all are from wealthy family. Freshly high school
graduates would spend time searching jobs on grabbing some money for study expenses.
Working in shopping malls or food outlets are normal, but performing street
music? Is that supposed to be an embarrassment for some teenagers who thinks
only those who are homeless or etc do those stuff? Don’t blame me, society
thinks that way. It’s pretty obvious they enjoy what they do and are willing to
sacrifice their leisure time to work hard and attain money. Even disagrees
politely to not be given food or drinks. That, is attractive.
6.
Straight on Emotional Feelings or Thoughts
It’s ironic for guys to be personal on his feelings or
thoughts due to standards or trying to be manly. To be honest, it’s a good
trait if they have one. But being too much personal isn’t going to make them
look better than those who are honest on sharing their feelings or thoughts to
those who they trust to interact with. Girls find it hard to understand guys in
reality, similar vice versa. We also like being told straight to the point of
guy’s intentions rather than to guess. Note, that being honest on feelings or
thoughts also proves guys are confident about themselves.
7.
Takes Education Responsibilities Seriously
Taking education seriously automatically means he’s aware of
his life responsibilities and proves he’s worth to be respected for. It’s a
major difference between being a natural genius with an intelligent mind. He
doesn’t have to be smart but at least we know he does everything to be the
best. Also shows he’s adapting this determined character in his soul so even if
life hits him hard, he knows how to stand up and keep up with the pace. That,
is attractive.
8.
Does not Curse
I know it’s hard to find guys who don’t curse. But one of my
best friends Afiq doesn’t curse, which means guys like him still exist and is
living perfectly fine. As much as guys hate hearing girls curse, they really
think we like them curse is it? Reality is no. I don’t hate guys who curse,
because you can’t hate a guy due to this factor only. But in an honest say I
find it very attracting to have hearing guys who never include curses in their
daily conversations.
9.
Keeps Himself Well Reserved
Similar to girls, guys, too have their standards doesn’t
matter both aspects of interactions or physical care. Guys who are extroverted
but minds his distance with girls as well as maintaining to stay fit and hygiene is attractive. From my point of view that is gentleman like. Keep up
being charming, socialize and have fun but at the same time takes care of his
preservation is attractive.
10.
Has Best Friends and Supports Each Other
It’s cute to see guys have best friends and always cling to
each other wherever they go. It doesn’t have to be hugging or cuddling like
girls do, but standing beside each other punching on the arms giving support is
attractive. If close friends love the guy, surely he has character. Do not
doubt any guy who has good friends along his side during both of his best and
worst days.
So, I’ve told you everything, note that what I’ve said above
isn’t ‘My Future Prince Charming Traits’ or ‘Perfect Future Husband’ okay? It’s
different. Example, if we say the guy is handsome, it doesn’t mean we like him
anyway. It’s a compliment, but never a say to categorize as crush or etc. Idk
about other girls but surely not me.
Whatever it is, I do admit if I have a crush surely he has
at least 3 of these aspects. But in general just saying these makes a guy seem
attractive to some girls point of view.
